Reading in 2020 + 2020 Readings (and Listenings)

  2020 was an unusual year in so many respects. Two of those reasons have been the available time for reading and the current will for reading. On the one hand, the events of the year led to extra space and time at home, which invited extra reading and study. In many ways, this was an ideal time to try to catch up on long-awaited reading projects, to find new literary friends and mentors. 

  On the other hand, as a couple friends and I have discussed, the events of the year often made it quite difficult to focus on deeper or more extensive reading. The exact reasons for this are not clear to me, but it was interesting to hear this theme among friends who love to read. Due to this second factor, I read the majority of the books listed here during the earlier part of the year. 

   And now, the tenth annual list of recommended readings:

Christian Life and Belief

Every Good Endeavor by Tim Keller (2012) - If I were going to recommend a single book this year, it would be this book on work. It might be better to describe it as a book on 'how to steward our time, energy, giftings, and environment.' It is a book about how to be the gardeners we were designed to be. If you work, and if you seek to follow the Bible, this book would probably have areas that would benefit you in your living and thinking. 

Christianity: Fundamental Teachings by The Joint Commission of Churches in Turkey (2017) - This is an excellent consideration of biblical faith, translated from Turkish. It is the work of a commission including the Catholic, Orthodox, and conservative Protestant believers proclaiming the core of faith based on the Bible. I can almost hear the skepticism about such a work growing in your mind. I'd suggest buying it and reading it first. (If you'd like it in hard copy, message me. I can buy copies locally quite easily.) 

Practically, one major function of the book locally was showing the unity of the faith in the face of polemic opposition. Another major function was a pastoral distillation of the central tenets of the Christian faith. It fulfilled both of these functions well.  (A friend did a review of it at ETS this year; that also might be of interest to some.)

Orthodoxy by G. K. Chesterton (1908) - I listened to Chesterton's Orthodoxy as an audiobook this year. He has a delightful way with words! Furthermore, the reactions to, disagreements with, or attacks on Christianity, which he dealt with over a century ago, are surprisingly familiar today. Thus, his response to them, which is semi-autobiographical, also still resonates. This might sound as if he's writing high philosophy against great opponents, but in much of the book, his antagonist is within - his doubts, fears, beliefs, and opinions. There was much to ponder and appreciate here.

Hidden in Plain View: Undesigned Coincidences in the Gospels and Acts by Lydia McGrew - A cousin recommended this book to me a couple months back as having an interesting line of evidence for the reliability of the New Testament. Since it was free on Kindle Unlimited, I decided to look at it while we have the free trial. I'd never heard the argument for undesigned coincidences developed, although apparently it's a couple hundred years old. It has value both as commentary linking the gospel accounts and as an apologetic argument for their reliability. (my post about it)

Additional reads of value: One Gospel for All Nations by Jackson Wu; The Message of Acts by Stott; Honor, Patronage, Kinship, and Purity by David deSilva (related post)

Fiction

Sarah's Key by Tatiana de Rosnay - This novel exploring the French participation in the Holocaust during World War II was deeply moving. The book's impact on Bethany as she read it was what got it onto my list to read; it was worth it. It is a well-crafted story full of pathos.

A Man of Means by P. G. Wodehouse (or... My Man Jeeves, The Inimitable Jeeves, Uneasy Money) - A friend has been telling me for years of the beauty to be found in reading Wodehouse. This year, I finally started exploring. He was right, of course. You should try them too; all the ones above are in the public domain (aka free). Clever British humor...

Echo by Pam Munoz Ryan - In a reverse from Sarah's Key, Echo was such a good book that I got Bethany to read it.  This is a novel for young people, but it is also a compelling tale for the rest of us. More accurately, it is several tales woven together with a delicate touch.

Princess of Wind & Wave (and others) by Melanie Cellier - The re-imagining of the ancient fairy tales is very nicely done in this series; the old tales guide core details of the plot, but they do not govern harshly. One is always left to wonder how the new tale will end and how the critical nuances of each tale will be intertwined in the book. (Bethany says Cellier's Spoken Mage series may be even better.)

Others: The Good Earth by Peal S. Buck; Call for the Dead by John de la Carré (who passed away very recently); and The Chosen by Chaim Potok (related post)

Re-reads: the Wrinkle in Time series; the Dune series by Frank Herbert (related post)

Nonfiction

Third Culture Kids by Van Reken and Pollock - This book is not the sort that you necessarily read through. I've benefitted from it since I first picked it up in Albania in 2005 and realized that "I was a TCK": I was a normal person from an unusual culture. Now, I'm looking at it more from the perspective of a parent. How does one raise children between cultures in the best possible ways?

   BONUS FICTION: Three Names of Me by Mary Cummings is a book about a little girl raised between cultures and struggling with her identity. It's a beautiful book for kids. (The main character is not technically a TCK, but her questions are similar, so I include her story here.)

Lions of the West by Robert Morgan - This biographical history followed a series of lives to explain the expansion of a small group of British colonies to cover the breadth of the American continent. Morgan shows the tragedies (personal and societal), the visions (also, personal and societal), the courage, the pettiness, and the conniving that went into a century of expansion and conquest, growth and heartbreak. The book is aptly subtitled "Heroes and Villains."

Religion and the Growing Mind by Basil Yeaxlee (one post among several from earlier this year) 

Music from the Year

Psallos' "Hebrews" album - These meditations on the book of Hebrews captured the family's collective musical ear. There's a variety of styles to fit the variety of topics in Hebrews.

Andrew Peterson's "Resurrection Letters" albums were also prominent in our listening this year. Volume 1 is my favorite, but all of them are impacting.

Finally, "The Hound + The Fox" are a musical team whom we have often enjoyed listening to. Check them out; I'd start here with "What Child is This / Child of the Poor." (Then save it for next Christmas!)

Recommendations from years past: 2019, 2018, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011

Hidden in Plain View - a lapsed argument on the New Testament's reliability

I suggest that we have such ample evidence for the reliability of these documents that we should consider ourselves privileged rather than burdened when called upon to present it. We should welcome the opportunity to reclaim and maintain the forward position held by the older apologists, for their arguments have been not so much refuted as forgotten in the shifts of theological fashion. (McGrew, 192)

 Drawing heavily on Paley's "Evidences of Christianity" and Blunt's "Scriptural Coincidences" (both free online due to their age), in Hidden in Plain View, Lydia McGrew presented a fresh and compelling argument on the historical reliability and accuracy on Scripture. Apparently this argument of (humanly) "undesigned coincidences" within Scripture  traces back to the 18th and 19th centuries, but it mostly disappeared. Now, due to a cousin's recommendation and the fact that it was available on Kindle Unlimited, I have gotten to read and benefit from this really useful book and argument. Hidden in Plain View was helpful in four areas:

1.  Reliability of Scripture (apologetics)

2.  Dealing with Bible difficulties (apologetics and hermeneutics)

3.  The 'Synoptic problem' in the Gospels (apologetics and hermeneutics)

4.  Insight into New Testament Scripture (hermeneutics)

  For the frequent reader or long-term student of the New Testament, the material in this book will probably be both extremely familiar and regularly surprising. This is particularly true of the first half, which deals with the Gospels. The reason for this is that as we have imbibed the different portions of the Scripture, we have often synthesized them in our understanding. This is obviously a good thing! However, it comes with the downside of not necessarily distinguishing the sources of the pieces of knowledge from each other. Therefore, we may not be  fully aware of many of the cases of Scripture supporting Scripture in the nitty gritty details.

  Again, this unawareness of specific links between is especially true in the four Gospel accounts, where the genres and narratives are so often read in parallel. On the other hand, I found that I was more aware of the subtle links between the accounts in Acts and the Pauline letters. I suspect that this is because each of these is more likely to be studied independently. Conversely, the Gospels, particularly the Synoptics (Matthew, Mark, Luke), are frequently studied as a whole. 

 It is in this connection that McGrew sheds light on the so-called 'synoptic problem', which she names 'the synoptic puzzle.' In fascinating details, she shows the independence of the four Gospel witnesses from each other. Most interestingly, as she points out, the details of independence often emerge at exactly the places where the accounts seem most harmonized (dependent?) at a surface level. This perspective also gives a clear response to the common question, 'Why are there four gospels (not just one)? (The apparently similar question of the later, Gnostic gospels such as the Gospel of Barnabas or the Gospel of Thomas, is quite separate actually.)

The providential provision of four Gospels gives us a three-dimensional view of the events. (p. 193)

 It was also in the Gospel sections, that I felt like there were the most significant insights into passages allowing deeper understanding of the meaning of each passage. For example, the links between John 13 where Jesus washes his followers' feet and Luke 22 where he describes servant leadership and declares, "I am among you as one who serves" are particularly poignant. The strength of this connection will certainly inform my thinking going forward.

  Anyways, this book is definitely worth reading, if not in all the details, at least to get the main argument. It is approachable in tone and, because she usually quotes the passages she is dealing with in their entirety, the argument has greater force as you see the coincidences in the details of the texts. 

  A few additional quotes to stir your interest (bold emphasis mine, italics original): 

But it is particularly noticeable that the Gospel authors often seem to write with the lack of affectation that we find in a person whose primary purpose is getting important information out there, getting down what happened, making it available, rather than in one whose primary purpose is to fit together what he writes in a polished manner. The author of the Gospel of John is certainly theological, perhaps more so than any of the other Gospel writers. But again and again we find him including items in his Gospel without their full explanations, apparently just because he wanted his readers to know that they happened. (p. 44)

What one sees in undesigned coincidences, again and again, are points which “impressed themselves upon the eye” of the spectator and came thus into the accounts we now have. (p. 63)

It’s also worth noting that any intentional connection of this miracle with the earlier miracle could, if both occurred, be attributed to Jesus himself. [...] It’s important not to assume that, if there are resemblances between two events in the Gospels, this automatically implies a literary parallel created by the author. (p. 207) 

~ McGrew, Lydia. Hidden In Plain View: Undesigned Coincidences in the Gospels and Acts 

a Disastrophe with Hanitizer

   My sister recently shared with me the word malaphor, which apparently is the blending of idioms or cliches; her sharing included the example, "it's not rocket surgery." It's always nice to have another word for something you already know how to do. I mean this summer I had realized that you should 

Never count your chickens before they come home to roost!

  

  Having said that, I have for years been collecting words along the same line - serendipitous combinations of words that, merged together, picturesquely convey far more than the sum of their parts. Language Nerds (the main reason I've considered getting Instagram) had one this week: 

cupidity: the dumb stuff we do when we are in love 

   Here are some additional samples that I present for your use.  

hanitizer: the stuff we wash COVID off our hands with (credit: small human in Texas) 

himpered: when you feel both hampered and hindered in and from doing something

disastrophe: when a catastrophe gets disastrously worse

crimpled: the feeling of not being able to walk because you've been sitting all crumpled up

anticdote: 1. a story about one's own antics; 2. a humorous anecdote told in order to offer warning for others as an antidote to their foolishness (credit: unsuspecting theologian in a lecture)

clowsy: cloudiness that makes one feel drowsy (credit: brother-in-law)

waservoir: a place with a large accumulation of water held in reserve (credit: small human)

wuzzled: the state of a paper that has been crushed and wadded and was not supposed to be in that state Ex: Why is this all wuzzled up?!? (credit: father) 

Imagining the Creation before the World's Creation - The Silmarillion, Chapter 1

   If you've read my blog or we've talked much, you may recall some of my theological speculations (sample 1, sample 2, sample 3). There's lots of areas for wondering in Scripture, many things that are hinted at, but not detailed. It is along these lines that J. R. R. Tolkien's first chapter in The Silmarillion is so gripping. 

 Middle Earth is neither a Christian allegory nor even a theologically correct construct of 'the real world'. There are elements in it that differ from what we might call a 'biblical' worldview; however, it seems to me to be a thoroughly Christian worldview. Middle Earth is a place where the creative mind that has been saturated with the possibilities latent within the world we see and the revelation that has been given to us can run free. 

  Thus it is that in the first lines describing the dawning of the reality in which Middle Earth will later occur, we find Eru, the One. Then, follows a chapter filled with what the imagination can suggest happened before the Beginning, when God created the heavens and the earth. It is a consideration of what might have been when 'the morning stars sang together... for joy' or when a son of Dawn said, "I will make myself like the Most High" (Job 38:7; Isaiah 14:12-14). It is in no way an exposition or interpretation of those passages, simply a fantasy of what might have been before our own dawning. It considers how the One knew that a darker theme would enter the Story  through pride and increase the majesty within the music, never denying the Composer one iota of the glory of His composition. Instead, setting theme against theme, the Subverter would amplify the Creator's own harmonies.

  I'd highly recommend these 10 pages of a novel as a meditation for the Christian mind. Imagination is a gift from the Creator, and Tolkien was a gifted imaginer. 

on Prophets (and Miracle Workers) - with 3 trivia questions

 Three trivia questions: (answers at the bottom of the post)

 a. Who was the first miracle worker mentioned in the Bible?

 b.  Who is the first person who is called a prophet in the Bible?

 c. How many prophets are listed as such before the first prophetess is recorded? 

The Prophet as Intercessor

   Especially in the second instance, I would say that the answer is a person whom we do not often consider to be a prophet. Yet, the Lord calls him one. More interestingly, the logic of being a prophet is given like this, "Make this right, and he is a prophet, so he will pray for your healing." This is an interesting role for the prophet, the Prophet as Intercessor. This is the role that we often ascribe to the priest, and rightly so. However, here it is so, and maybe elsewhere? Incidentally, this prophet had just interceded for God's mercy on pagan cities two chapters before in Genesis 18. But maybe we find here that intercession is also a function of being a prophet. 

The Prophet as the Speaker of God's Word

  Further thoughts, I have been reading through the OT Historical Books, describing the first nation(s) of Israel from the death of Moses through their exile from their Promised Land centuries later. One of the fascinating features of these stories is a stream of references to 'prophets,' plural. Among the people that I have known who take Scripture seriously, I suspect many of us think of prophets as solitary and sporadic icons throughout biblical history; we'd quickly list Moses, Samuel, Nathan, maybe Gad, Elijah, Elisha, and then skip forward probably to the writing prophets like Daniel and Jonah and Isaiah, (probably also forgetting most of the prophetesses whom I wrote about a while back.) But that notion of the 'rare prophet' of Israel doesn't bear up under closer study of Scripture. Prophets were often relatively common, though not always (1 Sam 3:1). 

 The idea that prophets were rare probably reflects the relative space given to describing the activity of individual prophets. However, it does not reflect the actual nature of the prophetic role in Israelite society at that time. Now, springing to mind for some might be 'the sons of the prophets' who make appearances throughout Elijah and Elisha's stories: Obadiah hid 100 prophets in Ahab's time (1 Kings 18), and 2 Kings 2 records 'sons of the prophets' living in Bethel and Jericho, numbering at least 50. And indeed, there seem to have often been many prophets scattered throughout the society. 

- Pre-Samuel prophets/prophetesses: Exodus 7:1; 15:20; Numbers 11:25-29; Judges 4-5; Judges 6:8

- Saul meets a group of prophets after leaving Samuel and joins them in prophesying (1 Samuel 10:5-13)

- Saul and his messengers meet a company of prophets led by Samuel and join them in prophesy (1 Samuel 19:20-24)

- 1 Kings 13 has the odd story of two unnamed prophets who speak the word of the Lord, although one lies about this at one point. The purpose of this story seems to be to show the corruption of even true prophets during this time. But for our study, that is not key for now.

- Then, there are named prophets (and a prophetess) who are mentioned more briefly: many sons of Asaph, Heman, and Jeduthun who prophesied are mentioned (1 Chr 25:1-5); Asaph the seer (2 Chr 29:30); Shemaiah (1 Kings 12:22; 2 Chr. 12) Ahijah the Shilonite (1 Kings 11) and Iddo the seer (2 Chr 9:29), Huldah (2 Kings 22:14), Azariah, (2 Chr 15:8), Hanani the seer (2 Chr 16:7-10), Jehu, son of Hanani (1 Kings 16:1-7; 2 Chr 19:2), and Micaiah (1 Kings 22). (Organized roughly chronologically)

- 1 Kings 20 has 2 separate stories of unnamed prophets who deliver messages to Ahab, King of Israel.

- The sons of the prophets mentioned right before Elijah was taken up to heaven are mentioned again in 2 Kings 4, 5, 6, and 9.  

- 2 Chronicles 33:18 speaks of multiple seers speaking God's word to Manasseh.

- Many of the Writing Prophets are also mentioned within the Historical Books though their stories are often unrecalled because of the focus on the texts they left. Isaiah (2 Kings 19-20; a major prophet even without the book), Jonah (2 Kings 14:25), Haggai and Zechariah (Ezra 5:1-2; 6:14).

The Prophet as Scribe

 Interestingly, many of the prophets seemed to have a history-writing role, though whether these are the recorded Scriptures that we have is not necessarily as clear. 1 Chronicles 29:29 mentions Samuel, Nathan and Gad in this regard. Nathan, Ahijah, and Iddo are listed in 2 Chronicles 9:29; Shemaiah and Iddo are mentioned in 2 Chronicles 12:15; and Iddo is mentioned again in 2 Chronicles 13:22. Also, Isaiah is recorded in this light (2 Chr 26:22; 32:32).

 The history of prophets and prophecy in Scripture is much broader than we often think about, and this is before we even consider the NT implications. Likely there are many more Scriptures that could be added to this discussion, feel free to do so if they will enrich our understanding!

Additional passages: 2 Samuel 15:27 - a high priest called a seer; 2 Chronicles 24:27 - 'many oracles'; 2 Kings 17:13 - warnings to Israel 'by every prophet and every seer' to turn from wickedness; 1 Sam 9:9 - equates seers with prophets; Zechariah the son of Jehoida (2 Chr 24:20); Isaiah 8:3 (unnamed prophetess).

Answers:

a. Moses (Ex 4:1-9 and beyond), as far as I can tell. Can you think of any previous instance where someone performs a miracle? Joseph's dream interpreting may be the closest, but dream interpreting seems like its own separate category. 

b. Abraham (Gen 20:7)

c. Two (Only Abraham and Aaron are named as prophets before Miriam. Deborah follows quickly as well with only Moses [Deut 18:15] and the incident in Numbers 11 intervening)

Related posts: The Odd Notion of 400 Silent Years; How Many Prophetesses are there in Scripture?

thoughts and quotations from Arrakis

   One of my weaknesses as a reader is my love for old friends and the preference for their company over that of unknown, potential friends. The Dune series has become such a friend during the last decade. Frank Herbert's stunning ability to mix all things social, political, religious, ecological and philosophical with a classic, expanding narrative is deeply engrossing. He's so good that the fact that he writes with an expansive, explicit agenda is often obscured by the depth and richness of the story. Of course, any powerful writer is likely to have an agenda of some sort or other, but Frank Herbert's agenda seems far broader and more educational than most. At the same time, he avoids the commonly used device of allegory to communicate his beliefs, and he escapes becoming preachy. Instead, he weaves something new. Below are some tidbits on various topics: several are on law and governing, one on the use of technology, and others on learning, dreaming, and atrocities. Each is worth thought and not simply acceptance or dismissal.

Heretics of Dune

Law always chooses sides on the basis of enforcement power. Morality and legal niceties have little to do with it when the real question is: Who has the clout?

God Emperor of Dune

In the perception of deeper needs, I must often ignore immediate ones. Not addressing immediate needs is an offense to the young. 

It takes a pretty dull policeman to miss the fact that the position of authority is the most prosperous criminal position available.

The devices themselves condition the users to employ each other the way they employ machines.

The law develops its own power structure, creating more wounds and new injustices. Such trauma can be healed by cooperation, not by confrontation. The summons to cooperate identifies the healer.

If there is a frontier, any kind of frontier, then what lies behind you cannot be more important than what lies ahead.

Children of Dune

Atrocity is recognized as such by victim and perpetrator alike, by all who learn about it at whatever remove. Atrocity has no excuses, no mitigating argument. [...] Atrocity merely arms the future for more atrocity.

Dune Messiah

To come under siege, he decided, was the inevitable fate of power.

Dune

It is shocking to find how many people do not believe they can learn, and how many more believe learning to be difficult.

What do you despise? By this you are truly known.

 

"Your Father, the Devil": Satan as a Father in the Bible

 As a father of growing and changing children, I want to keep growing in both my understanding and practice of fatherhood. Recently, I was thinking of the fact that Satan is discussed as a father in Scripture. So, it seemed worth exploring what characteristics are associated with devilish fatherhood.

 The images and metaphors associated with the devil are almost always violent or oppressive in some way whether emotionally (hatred, wrath, tempt, incite, furious), physically (contend, death, snare, take away, bound, devour), mentally (deceit, lies, schemes, disguise), or social (accuse, harass). 

Meanwhile, the images and metaphors associated with God may also at times be violent (Genesis 6:13; Exodus 15:3), but they are neither exclusively nor predominately so. Indeed, the names of God particularly associated with fatherhood are of a particularly different variety (Father of the fatherless, Holy Father, our Father in heaven, the Father of glory, the Father of mercy, the Father of lights, the living Father, etc.)  Along with their sources in the Bible, these can be seen in the 'Biography of God' that I posted some years ago.  

So...

In Scripture, what traits are associated with the fatherhood of Satan/the devil / the evil one? 

What qualities in a father are not sourced in the fatherhood of God?

-       John 8:34-47 (38, 41, 44) - The devil and his children...

o   lie, "the father of lies"

o   fight against truth

o   murder; seek to kill

o   cannot bear to hear the word of Christ

-       1 John 3:8-15 (8, 10, 12) - The one who is of the evil one...

o   Makes a practice of sinning; Does not practice righteousness

o   Does not love his brother

o   Hates and murders his brother

-       Matthew 13:24-30, 36-43 (38-39) - the children of the evil (one)...

o   intermingled with those of the Heavenly Father and may be indistinguishable from those of the Father’s kingdom even to the angels. (cf 2 Cor 11:14)

-       Acts 13:6-12 (10) - This particular example of a 'son of the devil'...

o   opposed God's messengers and sought to turn another person away from the faith 

o   was an enemy of all righteousness

o   was full of all deceit and villainy

o   made crooked the straight paths of the Lord (cf. Luke 3:3-5; the opposite of John the Baptist) 

  Other references that seem vaguely relevant but not really: Matthew 23:15; Ephesians 2:2-3; 5:6;  John 17:12; 2 Thessalonians 2:3; 2 Peter 2:14

  If you have any thoughts or passages or disagreements to contribute, I'd be interested to hear them on here or in person.

final tidbits from Yeaxlee on education & knowing Truth

  While it may not be the common purpose of a blog, I have found that as much as sharing ponderings and readings with others, a primary benefit of this blog is to be a repository for my thoughts and for what has affected my thinking. It allows me to collect my ideas, form them, and - vitally - to review them based on topics or themes that I may return to. In that spirit, I wanted to share some final thoughts from Basil Yeaxlee, especially pertaining to knowledge of truth, education, and a bit more on parenting.

Religion and the Growing Mind - Basil Yeaxlee

Knowledge of Faith & Truth

    "Dr. A. B. Macaulay, in discussing the nature of religious dogma and its relationship to science and philosophy, points out very aptly that if religious faith must be integrated with scientific knowledge, so also must scientific knowledge with religious faith. We must agree if we hold that both are natural functions of reasonable man living in a rational universe." 

(pg 113, citing The Death of Christ, pp. 31ff.)

"What we are emphasizing here is that the very nature of religion, as this is discoverable in the growing mind, is to make demands upon historical reality, and through it upon a Reality beyond space and time, yet personal." (pg 114).  

"...some truth cannot be told except in poetry." (pg 116)

"The Kingdom of God is not simply a gradual transformation of the kingdoms of this world but a mighty creative power which from beyond this world is ever breaking in through men and women who, in their day and degree, are creative and other-regarding as Jesus uniquely was in the days of His flesh." 

(pg 136, citing Rudolf Otto's The Kingdom of God and the Son of Man) 

Education

"...we must save ourselves from the risk of confusing education with instruction..." (pg 179)

About teachers... "In truth it may be doubted whether anybody in whom the parental instinct is not strong will ever make a first-class master or mistress." (pg 201)

"All good teaching is interesting teaching, but it is not thoroughly educative unless it stimulates children to discover fresh interests for themselves." (pg 213)

Parenting

"At the same time it is their [parents'] function to bring children gradually into contact with the larger world, so that the children can accept the good and throw off the evil for themselves." (pg 185)

Parents, God, and Babies

  Several years ago, I came across the name of Basil Yeaxlee as an educator and scholar who had an early interest in the idea of 'lifelong learning' and had, in fact, written a book on the topic. I also found that he had written on the connections between education and faith, focusing on the Christian faith. Now, I'm finally getting around to the book that I picked up by him called, Religion and the Growing Mind (1939). 

 

 A fifth of the way through the book, I have appreciated some of his insights on the nature of religion as well as about understanding others. But, it is a comment from the section on an infant's growth which I want to share here. More accurately, Yeaxlee's thoughts on the role of parents strikes me as crucial.

"... by his experience of such [Godlike] qualities in his parents as real, and as answering his vital needs, the tiny child is prepared for a true understanding of the existence and nature of God when later his mental development enables him to grasp these intellectually, as well as to respond to them emotionally - though even his earliest states are not for him devoid of an element of meaning. Furthermore, it becomes evident that in these most elemental and natural early relationships the parents are not merely making or marring the child's character, as Dr. Emanuel Miller so clearly demonstrates. They are actually interpreting or misinterpreting God to the child in the only medium possible, though often the parents have not the faintest notion that religion enters into the matter at all, whether they account themselves religious or not."

~ Pg 43-44 (1945 ed. Great Britain: Nisbet.) Emphasis added. 

  Think of it, parents are actually interpreting or misinterpreting God to the child in the only way they can to a child. May each of us as parents of young child interpret a true view of the LORD who became human to our children who cannot know him yet in other ways.

Addendum from pages 80 and 87 about older children...

"The truth about God may be obscured or distorted in the experience of a child if his parents are in themselves and in their relationships with him weak, unwise, inconsistent, sentimentally indulgent, harsh, overbearing, selfish, careless or indifferent, whatever beliefs about God, they may profess or try to teach the child. On the other hand, despite all their limitations or failings, if they are in any sense true parents they will inevitably mediate to him (and not simply illustrate) the fact that God is, and the meaning of the power and love of God the Father everlasting."

"It is only when that experience [of 'Father'] is largely contrary to what Jesus taught us to understand by 'Father' that the child may be made to stumble. Even then, as actual instances have proved, the child of an unworthy father clings to those few elements of good that persist in the most brutalised, callous, or indifferent parent, and in his fantasy world he will create a picture of fatherhood which is inspired by those elements of good, even if reinforced by what he sees and envies in the lives of happier children. It will be a picture of a father who commands reverence and evokes love - the kind of Father whom Jesus made known to men, and who is no fantasy." 

(This chapter was about the power and benefit of fantasy in the child's mental growth.) 

Frederick Douglass & a quote on fantasy

This plan never seems to have existed at more than the level of fantasy—

but then the level of fantasy is one of the most important levels at which things can exist.

~ in an article about Frederick Douglass, by Adam Gopnik (source)

  This gem of a quote came up, as I expanded my reading about Frederick Douglass; I have been slowly reading "Frederick Douglass: Prophet of Freedom" since last year. The biography has been well worth the time, but the above quote is worth some thought for completely different reasons.